Why is mowing the lawn automatically the man’s job. Why is taking the car to the shop, fixing broken things around the house, and taking out the trash. Two can play at this game and I always make the dinner too. How about we don’t view every problem in the world as the fault of men?
Why?
Because by and large men do the kinds of work around the house the woman does not want/like to do, are messier to do, like garbage and pkumbing, or are harder to do.
At the same time many of these jobs the guy would rather do on his own because he knows how to do them and would rather do them to completion on his own.
So in a lot of ways in many cases, the division tends to work itself out fairly well if they are a good match for each other.