Kinda what I was thinking. This is stupid. Since when did it become his/her money versus the family’s money?
For some (not all, of course, don’t attack me please, ladies) the husband is little more than an ATM with no PIN.
A comedian once said: My wife and I have an understanding. What’s hers is hers and what’s mine is hers.
Of course, there are exceptions.
An attractive young lady I knew several years ago kinda freaked me out one day. She worked at a place I frequented. Walking up one day I heard her declare to someone on the phone ‘Well, that’s after I get half of my first husband’s money’. She was not engaged nor even dating at the time.