wrong again...if they have one story, and all concerned are satisfied with it, and if none of the "victims" are making further accusations then it should have been over when it happened....when he was a 14 year old ....what, 8th grade kid?????
I propose a test. Wait until your wife goes to sleep. Sneak in the room without waking her up. The move the blankets out of the way without waking her up. Then feel her up without waking her up. Report results here.
I am assuming you’re a guy here. If not, have your husband do it and see if stay asleep.