She already said it was “planned.” So don’t tell me to “shut up” since I seem to have more facts than you do.
Planned just may mean not aborted..
like: she planned to have the baby.. with proper pre-natal care.. until birth..
instead of “other options”..
Proper pregnancy can be planned.. maybe should be..
Attaching a negative component to the word “planned” could be a mistake..
Wow. Keep spinning. Although you seem intent upon defending her, which is fine, you don’t give her enough respect to think she can actually plainly say what she means. Maybe it just means what it is: she planned to get pregnant without benefit of marriage.