Unmarried mothers now constitute about half of all US births.
Do you think these women really find lot of people who care about their not having children?
As you know, people, especially those who don't have the Holy Spirit urging them to reach out, tend to mingle almost exclusively with like-minded folk because it's comfortable and affirming. So, no, these women are not looking for anyone who has an opinion contrary to theirs, much less interested in upbraiding them about it.
I realize that, statistically, but I still instinctively figure that women with children are married.