Our formerly feral cat will be on anxiety meds soon....LOL...his main problem is he doesn’t like US! And, we feed him! But, he doesn’t bite, or snarl or anything...he just does not want to be picked up and held. Good luck with yours.
I got a cat at about 12 weeks. I think she’s a little feral,and like yours, she doesn’t tolerate being held. She will cuddle. She’s doing that right now. Doesn’t bite or scratch. Uses her box. Not a bad kitty.