[zipper]

Why wait until she refused to put out a cig to order her out of the car?

I think because it was probably at that moment that he suspected she was intoxicated.

[Crim]

Yeah ...after having her on the scene for 15 minutes and taking the time to write her a warning...

Sorry...doesnt jive.

I’d like to see the report...it might clear up a few things.

[zipper]

It seems obvious to me she was not arrested for "refusing to put out a cigarrette",

She was arrested for refusal to obey a lawful order -- meaning refusial to get out of the car.

She probably lit up the cigarrette to cover up the smell of marijuana.