” And let’s not forget the Duggar family tradition of having the females in the family whisper a code word to the males so that the men can cast their eyes down and not be “defrauded” by looking at an attractive woman.
Any families you know do that kind of thing? Teach the daughters to be responsible for their brothers’ and their father’s sexual responses? Sorry, I see nothing to emulate there. “
I read this several days go but have not known how to respond to it.
Yes we as Christians are to help each other avoid sin but this is just creepy and weird. I don’t know what to say even now. People should be in control of their own mind and conscience. Their eyes as well. Josh’s sisters were not with him to tell him “Don’t look at that porn” so he did. He had no one to tell him not to. Pure freedom and he went wild.
Is why I keep saying that Josh should “control himself”. I really wonder if he can?
I am not sure of the extent of the sisters playing lookout for the boys, but it seems a little neurotic. Boys seem to be more vulnerable to porn, girls to Texting. In this “online” world it is not possible to be Amish, nor does God want us to be. He wants us to beat porn and “secret lives” with His Holy Spirit. Kids are sinners. They may fall, but the Lord can help them up and set them on a straight path.