[rktman]

Find a range/gun shop where you can rent/try various different cals/brands/configurations. Find what’s comfy and suits your needs.

[farming pharmer]

Find a range/gun shop where you can rent/try various different cals/brands/configurations. Find what’s comfy and suits your needs.

Best advice on this thread. Also - buy the best you can afford.

Don't shy away from a revolver - they go bang every time and are very concealable.