Not my thing but she loved the whole caroling thing so we did that for her.
I don’t know if you can see the video or not.
https://www.facebook.com/groups/112298915455865/permalink/1070134653005615/
I remember the film "I Remember Mama" from 1948, directed by George Stevens, where Oscar Homolka played a relative who was dying. The family maintained a deathwatch around his bed. He took one last drink of whiskey and expired. When I first saw it on TV, my father commented that this was normal in families in his day.