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Why Am I So Sad About Having a Boy?
New York Magazine ^ | 1/15/2016 | Jenn Gann

Posted on 01/15/2016 10:42:54 AM PST by nickcarraway

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To: Uversabound

As I read some of the comments, I see that I had NO IDEA what the story was about.....another post I wrote by reading the article title without reading the story. lol. I do that from time to time especially if it is something that has to do with my family. Well the title sorta did but the story is FAR FAR FAR from our experience. No way would my wife or myself subject our children with that abuse.

Thank you for the post and kind words.


41 posted on 01/15/2016 11:08:23 AM PST by napscoordinator
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To: Mears

This was very hard to stomach.


42 posted on 01/15/2016 11:08:45 AM PST by FamiliarFace
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To: dfwgator

But my ma won’t admit it.


43 posted on 01/15/2016 11:09:14 AM PST by dead ("I'm up to my eyeball in virgin goats!" - Mullah Omar)
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To: nickcarraway
Methinks Jenn will probably not raise a warrior.

Like Rome before us, one day we will outsource our defense.

5.56mm

44 posted on 01/15/2016 11:10:35 AM PST by M Kehoe
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To: nickcarraway

She’ll be the next worker at planned parenthood!


45 posted on 01/15/2016 11:11:41 AM PST by caww
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To: ctdonath2

I have 2 sons and a daughter and never really gave thought to which gender I wanted. We have 4 grandsons and 3 granddaughters and if they all been one sex I wouldn’t care.


46 posted on 01/15/2016 11:12:57 AM PST by surrey
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To: nickcarraway

Yikes. That poor boy, having a sexist mother who doesn’t want him. Children sense everything, so hopefully that milquetoast of a father will get some sense so he can rear a man and in the process, become a man himself.


47 posted on 01/15/2016 11:16:53 AM PST by txrefugee
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To: napscoordinator
We stopped after 4. ... God knows what he is doing. You just have to trust with everything.

I don't mean to be nitpicky... but there is a dissonance in this thought process. As much as we call children "blessings", they are the only blessings we turn down. I don't know anyone who has a limit on how much money they would want to make, yet we have a limit to the number of children we'll accept. Both are blessings... both aren't welcome to the same degree.

We trust God and know that He knows what He's doing better than we do... except when we've had enough children. Then we say we trust God while stopping Him from doing His Will with us.

Nothing personal meant here... just an observation.

48 posted on 01/15/2016 11:17:15 AM PST by pgyanke (Republicans get in trouble when not living up to their principles. Democrats... when they do.)
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To: nickcarraway

I, Me, My, Mine, I, I, I, Me....

The writer is a bit too focused on one person.


49 posted on 01/15/2016 11:18:43 AM PST by lurk
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To: 2banana

But, being better than they are despite all that will more than compensate.


50 posted on 01/15/2016 11:22:23 AM PST by FredZarguna (Cincinnati is the new Seattle -- or is it the new Philthydelphia?)
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To: lurk
Channeling Obama.
51 posted on 01/15/2016 11:23:57 AM PST by originalbuckeye ("In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act." - George Orwell)
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To: nickcarraway

New York Values.


52 posted on 01/15/2016 11:25:44 AM PST by Norm Lenhart (Existential Cage Theory - An idea whose time has come)
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To: demshateGod

You beat me to it.


53 posted on 01/15/2016 11:26:08 AM PST by Norm Lenhart (Existential Cage Theory - An idea whose time has come)
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To: nickcarraway

I was only able to have one child. I was really pleased he was/is a boy. I was a tomboy and knew I could relate better to a boy. Funny how things work out.....his first child is a girl......and we adore her. That being said, I have some mild concern that so many girls are being born......afraid there won’t be enough boys to go around for the number of girls in this generation. Counting all my friends with grandchildren, approx 70% are girls. I have wondered if there is anything in our food supply causing this. Seriously. Any anecdotal stories that someone else notices an inordinate number of girls being born these days?


54 posted on 01/15/2016 11:27:37 AM PST by originalbuckeye ("In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act." - George Orwell)
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To: Blood of Tyrants

“If she can’t have a girl, she will try to manufacture a metrosexual boy.”

Some Mommies have been treating their sons like little girls since the beginning of time. This is nothing new.


55 posted on 01/15/2016 11:29:13 AM PST by rhoda_penmark
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To: Vigilanteman

I have two girls and a boy. I wouldn’t trade any of them for anything.


56 posted on 01/15/2016 11:30:50 AM PST by demshateGod (Trump for press secretary! Cruz for president!)
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To: originalbuckeye

“Any anecdotal stories that someone else notices an inordinate number of girls being born these days?”

Yes. In China, women are regularly and systematicaly raped by the male relatives of their husbands because there are not enough women for all men to have wives. This is due to selective abortion of females under the one child requirement. Everybody wanted a son.


57 posted on 01/15/2016 11:32:00 AM PST by rhoda_penmark
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To: ctdonath2
“do you want a boy or girl?”

My answer: Yes.

I have twin daughters and one stepson. All are as important to me as anyone.

FMCDH(BITS)

58 posted on 01/15/2016 11:32:35 AM PST by nothingnew (Hemmer and MacCullum are the worst on FNC)
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To: nickcarraway; All

Thank you. It is “sex” not “gender.”


59 posted on 01/15/2016 11:33:46 AM PST by paterfamilias
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To: nickcarraway

Well because, of course, being pregnant is all about HER!! This is disgusting.


60 posted on 01/15/2016 11:37:43 AM PST by browniexyz
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