and if she does not move over to unlock your car door, drop here, she is selfish (see Bronx Tale for details).
Or doesn’t laugh at your farts:-)
I was good-to-go with the ex for most of the above, but I always noticed that she never leaned over and unlocked my door, after I held the door got her and closed it. Ever. I noticed that and while it wasn't a big deal by itself, it set something a-twitch in the back of my mind.
Turned out she was all take and no give.
The first step, in male-female relationships, is to determine the attraction level. Corey Wayne says if the attraction is below a 5 on a scale of 1 to 10, don't pursue it no matter how hot she looks - your asking for trouble (like the above).
A ten wants to jump in bed on the first date. A nine can't keep her hands off you and says your amazing. An 8 says she wants a date with you. A 7 gives you subtle hints she wants a date. A 6 will go out with you do most things right. A 5 will go out with you only if you do all things right and are Mr. Amazing.
10 through 6 will help you with the conversations; they will laugh at your jokes even if they are not funny. A 5 may not laugh at unfunny jokes but still helps a bit.
Less than this. 1 through 4 won't make good eye contact. The body posture is closed. You get one word answers. They can be crude and even rude.
Don't even think of a relationship until several dates. Your job is to screen out the bad ones before hand. Ladies do this all the time.
Guys need to learn the signals and avoid all the drama from the get go. Gals do this instinctively in the first 10 seconds.
Mine used to, until the lightning zapped her one too many times. I had a pickup with cloth seats. I'd unlock her door (I was cheap, no power locks/windows). She'd get in, slide across that seat, and unlock my door. Most of the time, it was okay, but a few times, she got the snot shocked out of her by the static electricity. The last time she did it, it lit up the cab of the truck like a bolt from the blue, and I heard the zap from outside the truck. We agreed I'd unlock both doors after that.
The Hot Crazy matrix also is a good bell weather.
Good advice, but these days who doesn't have a remote?
That was when there were still bench seats in cars.