Do you wish to be arrested?
If no then do not confront
Do you wish to talk to a box of rocks?
Then confront and be ready for
Number one
If no then do not confront
Confront is not the right word I should have used. Question in a friendly way, is more of what I might have done.
I like people, and I am a friendly guy. I like to try to figure out what makes people tick. I would not have been confrontational, just gently questioning.