I wonder what % of men that seek mental health help are doing so for reasons that involve the opposite sex and how many women that seek help are doing so for reasons that involve men. It’s probably going to fairly high for both.
Then we can really determine who actually drives who crazy more. But I suspect that the results would be flawed for reasons you give.
Freegards
However, when a women needs help dealing with her mate she can always talk to her GBF (Gay Best Friend). Men seek help through their drinking buddies which is not necessarily a good thing.