[nickcarraway]

Is that really true. In my experience women seem to ignore anything negative said about a man, if they are considering him for romantic potential.

[Black Agnes]

But making him see more enticing, to your competition, is never ever a good idea.

[MomwithHope]

I would avoid “friends” that would be that critical. And find some who were more positive. It takes two to make a good marriage and being positive is not always easy but always the better choice.