You never know about husbands until you know.
And why offer up extra temptation by your own words?
I’ve seen a perfectly good marriage with the husband being one of those I NEVER would have suspected of it broken up by one of the wife’s good friends. The wife was one of the ‘never say a bad thing about my husband to anyone’ women. She’d have been better off just ditching the female friends altogether. Her mouth set her own trap.
I learned a valuable lesson with that situation. I was in my 20’s at the time. Once hubby and I married I kept one female friend. Long distance friend at that. We chatted via phone for a few years and then kids and household duties became such that I didn’t have the time for the friendship anymore and it sort of just dwindled.
Most of the time I say nothing at all. That’s no problem, because there are plenty of women who are willing to fill in for me. Sometimes I simply excuse myself and find someone else to talk to. Once I know who these people are, I avoid them.
I don’t need friends like that.