But treating him like dirt is a good way to encourage him to trade up to a less whiny model.
A woman who tears down her husband is fouling her own nest.
Discouraging poaching to ‘female friends’ isn’t the same thing as treating him like dirt.
Easy solution to this problem is simply not having any female friends.
My mom has the strategy that beibg overbearing nag to her children spurs self improvement.
It’s never worked, but she’s sticking to her strategy as her children are in their forties