I saw it today and didn’t notice the homo stuff.
I think what gave it away was when Spiner’s character kept calling his lover-”baby,” the hand holding and the looks of love. Oh yeah, and the fact that they are two gay characters with a gay director.
I would like to see it for myself, judge and get the facts first then make a judgement, and I do see it on FR at times but there is sometimes a rush to judgement before all the facts are in.
It seems like the pervert indoctrination worked perfectly for you.