This is the part you do not seem to be getting about YOUR attitudes:
http://biblehub.com/proverbs/16-18.htm
My attitude is to publicly proclaim the truth of the Bible. The prohibition of fornication is one of the important commands in the whole Bible. What attitude could be more virtuous than the desire to spread the gospel truth about the sin of fornication?
Why must this gospel be spread? Just visit our inner cities to see the terrible breakdown of the family — as inspired by the well-publicized fornication of our heroes at the Olympics and the NBA. Such behavior is tolerated by our decadent media, and even by commenters at freerepublic.com who worry that liberals would see them as “judgmental.”