Imperfect women looking for perfect men=guaranteed disappointment
They better settle for a cat.
They better settle for a cat.
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sound advice!
There must be an analog to “E-Match” for donors.
Someone has to take care of the kitties
You said it better and more succinctly than I could have.
I’ll add that the child delicate princesses have grown into adult princesses who think the world operates along those lines, and are to be disappointed.
The self esteem movement is to blame, and of course, liberals.
Oh, and the fathers of these women failed.
“Princessing” is a verb; it describes a mode of raising your daughter in a coddling mode and without a dose of reality. It creates females wholly unprepared for the real world.
As if perfection is a quality THEY can offer(?)
They usually end up with small dogs on their laps and scarves around their necks to hide the first signs of aging.
In some regards, it IS because they put their careers first.
Instead of working on their career but focusing on finding a partner in their 20s, when attractiveness and selection is great, they often drop guys who want to commit in their late 20s saying “no kids now, no marriage now”, losing perfectly good partners by putting them last.
Once they hit their 30s and NOW want to settle down, the best choices are usually already married and the remainder are split between permanent bachelors, divorced who are reluctant to commit and the lesser choices that too many settle for, have a kid with and divorce, then hating all men.
I’ve observed this myself, when I married my husband at 23 and was told I was too young. Had my first child at 26 and had professional women tell me I was derailing my career, should wait five to ten more years. I brought up that in ten years, I might not be able to have children.
Now I’m in my late 30s with one in elementary and one in middle school. We’ve watches some single women struggle to find partners, now that they finally look for them, a few marry and divorce late, some struggle now to have children according to the feminist ideal that violates biology (have fun until 35, then try to have a baby before it is too late).
The ideal time to find a partner is in your twenties, due to maturity, selection and biology. Feminists said wait until your 30s or even 40s, it is just as good.
The liberal left has been denying biology for ideology for years. The transgenderism (if we say a man is a woman when he puts on a dress then it proves there’s no difference between men and women) is only the more radical result of denying biology for ideology.
Awful lot of Mrs WBill's friends meet that description.
As (WOO-HOO) SINGLE WORKING WOMEN!!! they do things that most people would look at and be envious - jetting off to NYC at the drop of a hat, around-the-world travel, all-night parties.
The reality, though, is that they desperately want what my lovely wife has. A (ahem, pardon the immodesty) Good Man, nice home, kids, stable life, etc etc. However, they can't find the perfect man (hint: he doesn't exist). They don't want to give up what they have, or compromise, to achieve what my wife has - anyone with a successful marriage will say that it's a lot of work and not always a rose garden.
So, instead, these bitterly unhappy people try to fill the hole with a bigger, but shallower, lifestyle. I'm curious to see what they look like at 65 or 70. I'll be comfortably retired and enjoying grandkids. They'll be enjoying...... Don't know. Unlikely to be a 2am party life, though.
no worse than imperfect men looking for their Barbie dolls....