Do I agree with the the greatest gift a father can give his kids is to love his mother?
Do you believe women are better than men and should be put on a pedestal? She left him. She caused this man to stop living with his kids. She is likely, but not stated either way, that she has another man.
Is it proper for a divorced man to continue to love his ex-wife? I don’t think it’s proper at all. The man will be trapped for the rest of his life if he stays in love with her. He definitely can’t get a new wife if he still loves the ex.
And I have a real question I would like you to answer specifically. Does your advice work both ways? Should she show their children she still loves their father?
Man, you’re focusing on all the WRONG questions. Who CARES if she’s a mean rotten ex? What would you like for him to do about it? Kick her ass and show the kids that he’s the boss?
Of course my advice works both ways. It also works one way. Even if one ex is a jerk - the other MUST show respect.