"Baby, I'm not from Havana."
Posted on 09/26/2017 5:54:13 AM PDT by wyowolf
Not in the overly nice way I was before. Im not rude or a jerk, but Im not the sappy puppy love guy I was before...
I know what she said, she could be lying... to make herself feel better...
Possibly to “get some action”?
I’ve been shocked at the experiences and expectations of people using Tinder. I can imagine a “nice guy” has absolutely no idea.
They may have the wit, but they do not have the socialization. And this isn’t just a problem for women, but men as well.
Properly, boys and girls need to be raised together in a chaperoned environment, to learn how the other gender functions. It is the ordinary stuff of life: eating, cleaning, doing chores, good times and bad times, all of it has to be done together.
It is questionable if this can adequately happen if it only begins in adulthood. By that time, their social template is likely stuck on “loner” for the rest of their lives.
Adults caught in this situation, might be able to socialize themselves in a proxy relationship, such as subordinate and superior, invalid and helper, etc. But it is doubtful these relationships will socialize as much.
The most amazing thing is that there is still any factory work in the UK.
"Baby, I'm not from Havana."
Bingo!!
as i understand it there is different class structure there. ie if your a working class person, its hard to get to upper class no matter what you do...
Only if you mean siamese twins.
That’s all true. But having a degree doesn’t have anything to do with intelligence. I’ve known many people that have a degree that aren’t all that intelligent, and intelligent people that don’t have a degree. If you ask what they majored in, that will tell you a little more.
So you matured, I understand. :-)
The reason it sounds insufferably smug is because it is. When women with a Gender Studies degree or some other invented credential think that makes them smarter, better, more valuable, or more important than the men around them, that smugness shows. I wouldn't date them either. I am highly educated, as is my wife, and I have always enjoyed the company of intelligent women - educated or not. What I despise are the people who think a credential matters in terms of who they are.
These women will be lonely for a long time, and rightfully so. If a woman's "high intellect" does not lead her to the right answer on why it's hard to meet someone, then being intelligent (or probably just educated without being smart) is not worth much in their lives. Even an average intellect should be able to find a useful answer to that question.
Leftists claim to like being "empowered". The most empowering idea in my life has been that my problems are my own fault. It would have been easier to decide that all women were at fault when I had not yet found the right one to marry, but I could not possibly have fixed that problem. that conclusion would have led to a lonely life. It's much more satisfying to assume I am at fault whenever something is not working out. If I am responsible for the outcome, I can either change how I act or where I look - a big win for me several decades ago.
I cannot find any men who are intelligent enough to appreciate how much better I am than they are.”
“the dumb jocks had no problem finding girlfriends”
I only know of one from high school who ended up making a good living. I went for a hotrodder, myself...he drove a ‘57 Chevy he’d customized (we’re still together and he’s still extremely smart).
Yes, thats a better word :)
And they are so perfect.
They very much deserve better than just a mortal male.
I am glad they are not ‘settling’ for ‘just a man’.
/s
MGTOW
I suspect they’re behaving like Hillary with her rationalizations as to why she lost. They dropped their unrealistic standards and to their dismay the guys saw right through them. A shrill harpy wench is still a shrill harpy wench, the degree just makes them all the more insufferable.
You would understand the dynamic better if you had lived there. Sure, they can be snotty, but that’s not a lot of it.
Why yes, it DOES sound insufferably smug.
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