Two very truthful and accurate posts.
I think anyone, male or female, who has good character and a kind personality can inspire romantic love. Sure, there are plain people, homely people, but what’s inside makes a person “attractive” in the absolute sense, and people who would never make a magazine cover have long, happy marriages and a boatload of grandchildren.
On the other hand, people who aren’t kind and loving are ugly, no matter what they look like.