So now every priest is guilty? The story stinks and makes no sense. I believe she has been coached to lie. Why? That is a good question. But really what makes me doubt this is the bit about him rubbing lotion on her. That does not pass the smell test.
I though it was about last rites, so she is most likely dead by now.
Not every priest is bad, but the church should police their own and get rid of the bad ones.