You remind me of Fauci when he wanted to “stop the virus.” It was all science, no culture. You are dealing with this from an evolutionary standpoint with no regard for the rules and roles of our society. If you think laws should treat minor boys and girls differently when it comes to rape laws because their brains are wired differently, that’s on you. Reminds me of the slippery slope being used by trans activists that will eventually lead to lowering the age of consent. Are you in favor of lowering the age of consent for boys? Maybe 13 or 15 for boys?
An erection cannot be forced. If there is a sexual encounter between a WILLING male and a WILLING female then an erection on the part of the male constitutes consent on his part.
I’m arguing rather for the European medieval- early modern social consensus, before the invention of liberal idealism. This is a social matter, rooted in human phsysiology/hard coded psychology, in a cumulative, evolved social process. To understand the concept of tradition, I think, you have to read Burke, the founder of conservatism as an ideology.
Fauci isn’t a conservative at all. He is a dirigiste right out of the French Revolution. He knows better, he thinks, guided as he is by “reason”.
To be clear, I don’t think you understand the issues or their analogies at all.