I’ve Been an OBGYN for 30 Years and Delivered Over 5,000 Babies. I Know Women Don’t Need Abortion

As an obstetrician and gynecologist practicing for over 30 years, delivering over 5,000 babies, I have cared for many women with unintended pregnancies. The creation of a child is often a surprise for a couple, but for the majority, the surprise quickly gives way to pleasant anticipation of the coming baby.

For women who may be experiencing an unstable relationship or financial or other social struggles, however, this news may initially appear to be a crisis. That’s where the vital work of pregnancy resource centers comes in, providing the material, medical, and emotional resources women need to continue their pregnancies with courage and hope.

The abortion industry, by contrast, preys on women facing unintended pregnancies, promoting abortion as the only solution and promising it will reset the clock and erase the difficult circumstances. I have seen far too many women make the rushed decision of ending the lives of their unborn children, only to experience regret later, often accompanied by mental health complications such as anxiety, depression, substance and alcohol abuse, and even self-harm.

Yet, a recent peer-reviewed study by the Charlotte Lozier Institute found that 60% of women surveyed who chose abortion would have instead preferred to have given birth to their child if they had received more support from others or had more financial security. Almost one-fourth of the women described their abortion as “unwanted or coerced” and 43% described their abortion as “accepted but inconsistent with their values.” Hence, the critical need for pregnancy centers that provide resources to support women in crisis pregnancies.

The Charlotte Lozier Institute, in collaboration with Care Net, the National Institute of Family and Life Advocates and Heartbeat International, recently released results from its report on the work of U.S. pregnancy resource centers titled “Hope for a New Generation.” The report shows just how extensive the resources and services provided by 2,750 pro-life pregnancy centers are. In 2022 alone, centers met with clients more than 16 million times, provided goods and services valuing $358 million, and served nearly 975,000 new clients. Pregnancy tests, wipes, formula, baby diapers, parenting education and ultrasounds were provided at no cost. Of those served, 97% reported a positive experience.

I have been personally involved with a local pregnancy center, Any Woman Can, as a board member and medical director for a decade. Most importantly, I have utilized AWC’s resources for my patients when they have come to me in distress with an unanticipated pregnancy and uncertainty about what to do next. Just as the other approximately 3,000 pregnancy centers around the U.S. do, AWC comes alongside these women in their crises.

In some cases, a woman may present to a pregnancy resource center for help after she has consumed the first pill in the dangerous abortion drug regimen but regretted her decision. In that circumstance, high dose progesterone has been proven to stop the progesterone-blocking effect of mifepristone and allow many pregnancies to continue to live birth. Pregnancy centers can refer to a local pro-life physician who can provide that intervention.

AWC and other pregnancy centers also provide emotional support, giving the woman a shoulder to cry on as she considers her situation. They also give support to the baby’s father, who may be young or financially insecure, desiring to meet his responsibilities as a father but unsure how to do so. In addition to the abundance of material resources mentioned previously, many centers provide relationship counseling, mental health counseling and parenting classes to ensure the young woman or couple are healthy and prepared to care for the new child.

Many centers will help women navigate the often-confusing network of governmental support agencies such as Medicaid insurance for prenatal care and WIC for nutritional supplementation. They can even refer to local non-profits for other needs such as housing assistance or substance abuse treatment.

Needless to say, I have seen just how invaluable these pregnancy resource centers have been for mothers in need.

I love caring for both my patients—a woman and her unborn child. I am grateful to have the opportunity to provide clarity for women in the crisis of an unintended pregnancy and that I have excellent local pregnancy resource centers to assist me in this work. These beautiful organizations walk alongside my patients, saving the life of the unborn child and potentially saving the emotional, mental, and even physical health of the mother.

An OBGYN friend of mine specialized in difficult complicated pregnancies. She said that her efforts are to save babies, and mothers, and in good conscience, she could not also kill babies.

She refused, and it negatively impacted her career.

As someone who has had four children I can say that the moment you get that positive pregnancy test you are picturing that baby in your mind in a thousand different ways - rocking it, playing with it, dressing it, etc. It is a BABY. Nobody gets that positive test and envisions cells and amniotic fluid.

Whatever one's difficult circumstances, whatever the age of the fetus, whatever anything ... when you are pregnant you are already a mother and when you have an abortion you are still a mother ... but of a baby whose death you authorized.

Them's the facts. And I will never understand the mindset of women who would prefer to kill their baby than give it away to a couple who wants it.

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