"Then you are defining deviancy downward. If this is not soft-porn, then what is? Full frontal nudity? Actual penetration? S&M?"
I am only "defining deviancy downward" if I (not you) consider the nude female body to be "deviant," which I do not.
Depending on the venue, full frontal nudity MAY be considered soft porn. In other venues, it is art - in others still, it could be educational. For a billboard, that poster is sexy, not pornographic.
Also, I have three children - daughters, aged 26 and 18, and a son, aged 22. The eldest daughter has some reknown as a stage actress and model in the mid-Atlantic states. My point is this: I've raised three children,...and my views on what constitutes porn, soft or otherwise, haven't changed through the process.
Pics?
Just kidding, just kidding.