El Gato...this ain't agin' you...but men have not been stepping up to the plate.
...and if people say men have been beaten down by feminism...then they're not real men.
A high percentage of boys are raised by single moms these days, and most turn out okay...not ideal...but okay. The men are not there.
Two loving parents, in this case, have a trump on the single mom with serial boyfriends.
All that said...I agree with you...a mom AND a DAD are the best option.
How does a man, real or imagined, get between two lesbians? Blackbird.