Most of those who've tried a nicely frosted cake know that the icing is not the best part...or there'd be no call for cakes, just bowls of icing and spoons.
But there are probably as many little kids who would gladly dig into a bowl filled with such a treat as there are guys who look only at the outside of a possible feminine analogue to their personality. When the gods are feeling particularly malevolent, they arrange for two with similar beliefs to meet.
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