Okay, Okay, so I can't spell a 5 letter word at 3AM....
Let me guess. This is from another veteran of the bride by mail frauds?
I hope he can see himself in his child's face. Some of them are already inciente when they show up in the US to marry their "true love".
The women involved are not bad people, just normal people who are desperate for a better life. He may find out that live in a third world backwater was not what she had in mind.