P.S. Accept the fact that you are currently losing the battle. and losing badly. You must do something that you might consider drastic to win and save this man's life.
For inspiration, rent "The Untouchables." Watch it again. Watch the Sean Connery character and how he develops Costner.
Consider it a "training film."
Wow!!
Sounds like good advice. Shall we all (Terri warriors) view it?