Maybe Grandpa didn't sit around all day convincing himself that his country is the worst place on earth, responsible for all the ills that befall mankind, and have such a low self-esteem.
Maybe Grandpa knew how to knuckle down and make something of himself and when things didn't go right he looked to himself FIRST to see if the cause wasn't sitting right there at home instead of running to blame somebody else.
Maybe you're a whiney loser and ought to wise up before you die and end up being nothing else BUT a whiney loser.
Why were you so critical of the other poster? You do not know if she/he has any kind of health problems. Just hold judgement if you do not have all the facts.