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A Parent's Nightmare
The American Partisan ^ | 11/23/2003 | Linda Prussen-Razzano

Posted on 06/24/2005 9:11:00 PM PDT by TheWriterTX

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I tend to be a very rational person in many areas, but for some reason, when it comes to my children and the possibility of danger to them, I am reduced to the most primitive form of responses.

We can Monday-morning quarterback on the sad loss of three innocent children in Camden, about what the family should have done or where they should have looked. The entire event described above, from introduction to my daughter's safe return, took less than 10 minutes. I dissolved into a senseless mess in just three.

1 posted on 06/24/2005 9:11:00 PM PDT by TheWriterTX
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To: TheWriterTX

I'm so glad your daughter was safe. Thankfully my children grew up in a 'safer' time and I grew up in an even safer era than that. Things just keep getting worse!


2 posted on 06/24/2005 9:16:41 PM PDT by potlatch (Does a clean house indicate that there is a broken computer in it?)
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When you fear your child is in danger, minutes seem like hours. My son has epilepsy and every time he has a seizure, it seems to take forever for the ambulance to arrive.
3 posted on 06/24/2005 9:16:44 PM PDT by RebelBanker (To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and to hear the lamentation of the women!)
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To: TheWriterTX

Um...I'm sorry, and I know how stressful losing a child can be.

But calling the cops after five minutes without checking next door to see if the child was there, is HYSTERICAL, and not at all rational.

If people lived their lives like this woman does, the cops would be at their door every time the kid went for a whiz in the bathroom without telling Mom she was going potty.


4 posted on 06/24/2005 9:17:51 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: TheWriterTX

I'm thinking some kind of GPS-like transmitter sewn into children's clothing as a standard safety device might be a good idea. Mom can just turn on her reciever and see instantly how far away the child is.


5 posted on 06/24/2005 9:20:19 PM PDT by Mr. Jeeves ("Violence never settles anything." Genghis Khan, 1162-1227)
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To: TheWriterTX

We're dealing with this in MN.

http://kstp.com/article/stories/S8961.html?cat=1

Ignore all of the (media) SUV references. Non-factor.


6 posted on 06/24/2005 9:20:50 PM PDT by ButThreeLeftsDo (Enjoy every sandwich.)
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God bless, RebelBanker! I can only imagine how difficult that has to be for you, wanting to help your son, and knowing that your capacity to do so can be limited by circumstances beyond your control.

And yes, you are absolutely correct. Minutes do seem like hours...

7 posted on 06/24/2005 9:21:49 PM PDT by TheWriterTX (Proud Retrosexual Wife of 12 Years)
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My two year old daughter got away from us for about three minutes in much the same way. It doesn't take long for the insane panic to rise.

She had decided it would be funny to hide in my neighbor's open garage and not answer our yelling.

She's a barrel of laughs.

8 posted on 06/24/2005 9:25:16 PM PDT by dead (I've got my eye out for Mullah Omar.)
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To: dead

Did ye call the cops?


9 posted on 06/24/2005 9:28:02 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: TheWriterTX

When my daughter turned 3, there were no less than four (4) kidnappings of young girls in the Dallas-Fort Worth area. I lived in the southern mid-cities at the time.

They eventually found the skeletal remains of one of them just about 3 miles from my home a couple of years later. As one might expect, I lived in abject fear of one of my kids becoming a statistic.

Thankfully, and perhaps because my wife and I were diligent in teaching her to be extremely wary of strangers, she's 31 now. However, she has two kids of her own, so that little niggling fear has not subsided.

When you become a parent, you're a parent for life.


10 posted on 06/24/2005 9:31:57 PM PDT by Marauder (Politicians use words the way a squid uses ink.)
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To: TheWriterTX

Moral of the story: When people read too many milk cartons, and trust too much of the media-generated fears that the media need to sell more milk and other goods, such people turn into irrational fearful hand-wringers looking for the government to save them.

Their plan is working on you.

Congratulations. Your emotions have overridden your reason, and people like you will undoubtedly sell out their (and my) liberty for some perceived safety.

Flame away.


11 posted on 06/24/2005 9:36:51 PM PDT by Atlas Sneezed
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PS:

Your angst-wridden tale is CHAT, not "news"!

If you don't know the difference, lurk for a while.


12 posted on 06/24/2005 9:37:45 PM PDT by Atlas Sneezed
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PPS:

Forgive me for initially thinking you wrote this moronic pap.

You merely posted it.

Thanks.


13 posted on 06/24/2005 9:39:00 PM PDT by Atlas Sneezed
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And yes, you are absolutely correct. Minutes do seem like hours...

Years ago my 2 year old daughter drowned in our apartment pool. I rounded a corner and saw her floating silently on a pool so still it looked like glass. I dove in, got her out, and miraculously was able to revive her. She's had no after effects. From the time I spotted her until I revived her the seconds seemed like days. Life really did seem to shift to extremely slow motion.

You did right to panic. Good job.

14 posted on 06/24/2005 9:43:40 PM PDT by Mind-numbed Robot (Not all that needs to be done needs to be done by the government.)
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To: Beelzebubba

Flame you?

I want to buy you a drink! :-)


15 posted on 06/24/2005 9:45:01 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: Beelzebubba

BTW..this piece of crap was written in 2003.

News?

The child is in university by now! ;-)


16 posted on 06/24/2005 9:46:47 PM PDT by Happygal (liberalism - a narrow tribal outlook largely founded on class prejudice)
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To: Happygal

Thanks.

I needed that.


17 posted on 06/24/2005 9:46:55 PM PDT by Atlas Sneezed
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To: TheWriterTX
My advice: get the best mobile, agile child protector there is.


18 posted on 06/24/2005 9:48:31 PM PDT by DTogo (U.S. out of the U.N. & U.N out of the U.S.)
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My buddy and I ran away when we were 4 years old (mid-1950's) to look for "redheaded girlfriends". Our moms called the cops who dragged us home. Twenty years later, I hooked up with a beautiful redheaded girl & when my mom called the cops they said, "Oh, you again".
19 posted on 06/24/2005 9:50:31 PM PDT by fat city (Julius Rosenberg's soviet code name was "Liberal")
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