Posted on 07/11/2005 9:54:21 AM PDT by cchandler
I read a brilliantly simple comparison in the Free Republic forum between the Four Psychological Stages Of The Battered Woman Syndrome and many leftists' reactions and responses to the threat of Islamic terrorism. When I looked at the signs, stages and rationalizations involved, I was amazed at how similarly the methodologies mirrored each other.
These stages of rationalization perfectly resemble the fight-or-flight instincts (or lack thereof) that people face in a post-September 11th world. The differences lie in the fact that most Americans bypassed stages 1 and 2 and went directly to 3 or 4. It is specifically the failure of many on the left to get past stage 2 that renders tham incapable of understanding the War on Terror.
FOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL STAGES OF THE BATTERED WOMAN SYNDROME
DENIAL
The woman refuses to admit--even to herself--that she has been beaten or that there is a "problem" in her marriage. She may call each incident an "accident". She offers excuses for her husband's violence and each time firmly believes it will never happen again.
GUILT
She now acknowledges there is a problem, but considers herself responsible for it. She "deserves" to be beaten, she feels, because she has defects in her character and is not living up to her husband's expectations.
ENLIGHTENMENT
The woman no longer assumes responsibility for her husband's abusive treatment, recognizing that no one "deserves" to be beaten. She is still committed to her marriage, though, and stays with her husband, hoping they can work things out.
RESPONSIBILITY
Accepting the fact that her husband will not, or can not, stop his violent behavior, the battered woman decides she will no longer submit to it and starts a new life........
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