Walk away from the TV and the monitor and pick up what the woman in your life is reading. Or go hang out on some of the chat forums that discuss these books. Call it what you may; bodice ripper, Housewife porn, romance novel...whatever. THAT is what her real fantasys are.
Feh. Walk away from the TV, sure, but rather than picking up a Harlequin Romance, I think most women would appreciate you hitting the gym instead. That's just my experience, your milage may vary....
Nope,
seriously,
The women I know don't necessarily want hard body...it would be nice, but I still hear complaints of 'buff hubbys who don't have a clue'.....they want a guy who pays attention and listens to what they want.
That is what these books do...seriously, pick one up but....Erm, and it wasn't Harliquin I was referring too ;) I mean, that's soooo kindergarten!