I think the best choice for a novice, or a non-enthusiast who doesn’t spend a lot of time shooting is a double action revolver. They are inherently simpler and safer to learn to handle and shoot effectively. A four inch .357, will permit the use of lighter .38 Special loads, and it’s barrel is a practical compromise between ease of shooting and ease of carry.
Yep, I agree. This plus a 12ga pump with pretty much handle any social situation. Include a .22 rifle and your set for TEOTWAKI.