If you choose to have children with her YOU did screw up.
So in other words the woman has no responsibility? Her role is that of the scorpion riding on the turtle’s back - she stings the man because “it’s my nature?”
So then she has no moral obligation - she’s just doing what women do, and we can’t expect any more from her?
You seem to be saying that a woman is evil by nature and a man should just expect to be screwed over by her, and if she robs him of his house, children and paycheck, it’s his own fault for trusting a woman.
Interesting view of women, I guess.
You don’t GET to choose whether or not to have children with her. All you get to choose is whether you’ll have sex with her, which is the same choice she gets to make.
Reproduction is totally out of the man’s hands.