I can say truthfully with no exaggeration that my life would be 10 times better had I never married.
Some will say, “but what about the child?” Well, what about her. My ex tells me nothing about her life or what’s going on. She spends a lot of time hundreds of miles away with her grandparents.
The ex allows me a couple of hours with her about once or twice a month regardless of the agreement.
It sounds terrible but the is sweet and nice but she is basically a stranger to me. I have nothing to do with her.
I want the man-haters, as you put it, to tell me:
WHAT AM I PAYING FOR?
WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS?
WHY IS MY LIFE RUINED BECAUSE MY WIFE WANTED A DIVORCE?
It is insanity.
But screw it. Let em put me jail if they want. Who cares. My career is wiped out anyway.
Let’s see how much money she and her boyfriend get then.
My son gets to pay whatever the state decides he needs to pay. He’s brought home zero dollar checks. If it weren’t for us, his parents, he’d be homeless and hungry. We have not seen our grandson, his son, in over 4 years. He lives an hour and a half away from us. We cannot even call to talk to him.
If he’s late mailing that payment, his ex reports him as a dead beat dad.
I honestly hate that girl.
BTW, my son never married her. She swore she’d make him suffer and she has.
He has no rights except to shut up and take it.