People just don't get it or don't want to. And I wouldn't count on that 'conservative' thing. A lot of people sound like fiscal conservatives until you get to something they want.
“...until you get down to something they want.”
You hit it exactly on the head. She wants a baby, can’t afford fertility treatments out of pocket, and thinks someone else should help pay for them. And why not?
The increasing (?) level of selfishness & entitlement is very frustrating.