Thanks for the lovely photo. See my previous post on this thread.
Of course, you’re shocked, stressed and disappointed when things don’t go as expected; but you soon learn this is REAL LIFE. Strong people get up, dust themselves off, and put one foot in front of the other,take a day at a time, and sooner or later, learn that what other people think is really not all that important after all. This realization can be liberating. - Over 40 yrs. ago, we had a Downs baby with lots of the physical stuff that goes along with that syndrome. He died after surgery at 6 wks. of age. He was a Sweetie; my husband called him Sweetie and that was music to my ears.