You sound like one of the good guys. Don’t give up - the one for you is out there.
I am distrustful of men who have the “Hero Complex”. They tend to be controlling and at the same time incredibly needy of emotional support.
Everyone occasionally needs help and I’m no exception. When that need arises, I usually turn to family but most of the time I do just fine. Asking for help doesn’t mean I’m seeking a life partner or someone for sex.
I advise my friends who want to marry, look for someone who if they were the same sex, would be a best friend.
I’m going to call you on that. :)
There isn’t always a person for everybody, at least in this life. If there is, and you’re not a male who is 6 feet and a good build, there is a very good chance that you won’t live long enough to find her. That’s the reality for many of us males.
However, he should try and enjoy life as is and make many friends not worry so much about that.
Being the nice guy has done squat for me.
-—I advise my friends who want to marry, look for someone who if they were the same sex, would be a best friend.-—
No wonder men run from marriage.....my wife of 30 plus years is my best friend but not even remotely like her best girlfriend...
It is a much deeper relationship than any girlfriend she ever had
Being a husband means she is “bone of my bone flesh of my flesh” we are so intertwinned by love commitment service support a mere freindship would be an insult