In NY....I know plenty of dudes who “carry”....and legally.
Great. But I can't, as a permit holder in NC. What are the prospects for the governments of NY, ME, CT, RI, MD, or NJ to vote to recognize my permit. NIL, ZIP, ZERO, NADA, I would think. Those statists hate issuing permits to their people; they sure don't want some backwoods hick from NC carrying 3 pistols around in their state.
Again, national reciprocity forces the issue.