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To: giotto
I only needed to watch the first few seconds of the video to know the man was faking. When you lose a child—especially so suddenly—you don’t laugh for months, years. The man should appear as if in a trance, stunned, in shock. It should be difficult to utter even a few words. This is absolutely incredible.

BS!

People during times of grief and duress and the unexpected loss of a loved one, a child or a parent, spouse, etc. one sometimes find moments of humor and even levity even in their grief. People deal with loss and tragedy in many different ways. Saying that someone who experiences such a loss shouldn’t smile or laugh for years and that anyone who does is not sincere, is simply ridiculous.

97 posted on 01/06/2013 12:59:53 PM PST by MD Expat in PA
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To: MD Expat in PA
Did you even watch the video? The man comes out laughing and swaggering like he hasn't a care in the world. Then somebody says something to him, he says "Okay," and he starts acting the part of the tragic father. Not a bad acting job, but there's still that happy-go-lucky entrance that gives the lie to his act.

As for what you said about finding humor and levity in one's grief, that may happen when a parent or adult who has been dying for a long time finally dies. But for someone whose life has been shattered by the death of a young child, there is no laughter for a very long time.

133 posted on 01/06/2013 11:21:16 PM PST by giotto
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