Holy scripture lays out the way things should be. With modern day feminism, we've witnessed an explosion in divorce.
Let the guy be the protector, bread winner, spiritual leader. STOP making lil wussy’s out of our male kiddo's. Teach a boy to grow up and be a man!
Two captains attempting to drive the ship ultimately results in the ship on the rocks.
I for one would like to see more traditional male/female roles in marriage.
Bingo.
#1 cause of divorce is arrogance.
It isn’t limited to one or the other sex.
It doesn’t require both spouses to be arrogant.
Arrogance in the man might lead to him looking for sex as a counterfeit substitute for the marriage contract, be it with his spouse, with fornication, or in adultery.
Arrogance in the woman might be a desire to have the power of a man’s role in life, getting high of her ability to control worldly things independent of what the marriage provides.
Nagging is generally consequential to arrogance. A desire to control the behavior of a spouse to live they way they think they should live, instead of respecting the volition of their spouse.
It boils down to basics in God’s Plan.
If the couple remain faithful to God, they also can enjoy the fruits of the family. Adversity is inevitable, but how it is handled is our testing in life.