“You misunderstand me”
I don’t think so. I’ve looked at your other posts to FR and discovered you’re an atheist who supports homosexuality and teenage sex.
What are you doing on FR? Is it to tut-tut other freepers when you don’t think they’re being “nice” enough.
Take your advice elsewhere.
If you don’t want advice from strangers on the internet, don’t ask for advice from strangers on the internet.