[Rides_A_Red_Horse]

If you want commitment, and after six months she isn't talking about the future, then it's time to move on. If, after a year, you are not both sure enough to be willing to set a date, then it's time to move on.

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There's one simple truth I learned in my life. Nothing makes a man more attractive to a woman than another woman's interest.

During one of the many rough patches between me and my exwife she had been really taking me for granted and was beyond being just “cold.” We were at a store in the mall when a young lady friend/work colleague saw me and greeted me with a brief hug. That evening my “exwife to be” became a LOT friendlier.

Eventually, I got sick of head games, mental abuse and undeserved resentment so I got off the emotional roller coaster. That was the best decision I ever made.

[PapaBear3625]

There's one simple truth I learned in my life. Nothing makes a man more attractive to a woman than another woman's interest.

Yep, women are attracted to high-status men, with "high-status" being defined as "lots of other women want him too". Meanwhile, if she thinks he can't do any better than her, it makes her think she can do better than him.

The one in control of the relationship is the one most able to walk away from it.

[dfwgator]

Just as it’s easier to get a job when you already have one, it’s easier to get a woman, when you’re already in a relationship.

[Patton@Bastogne]

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you're exactly correct ... the "competing woman" syndrome ... damnest thing I've ever seen, too ...


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[Patton@Bastogne]

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you're exactly correct ... the "competing woman" . syndrome ... damnest thing I've ever seen, too ...


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