No, that is the standard for women out and about because they go through the cost and bother for courtship reasons.
The time savings of being a man is worth far more than a few dinners and movie tickets.
You’re dead wrong.
What you spend for anything in the area of looking good is spent on YOU. You spend nothing on the man himself. You don’t buy him dinner, you don’t spring for the many miscellaneous gifts and benefits that are commonly bestowed on you.
You don’t spend anything on the man himself in the courtship or dating relationship. That’s a fact. You don’t know what you’re talking about.