There is a difference between a guest and someone demanding you house and clothe them.
At most, they should have a wash, medical check up, a full belly and a plane ticket back home. And that’s just for the kids. Adults knowingly break the law and deserve to be tossed back.
Why, why, why would you go there?
(Lk 6:29)
If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them.