See, my opinion is that if I don’t cheat in games, then I don’t have fun. I enjoy “winning” overwhelmingly, no shame if I use level 20 character beating a lvl 10 in story mode. But that was just a distraction to the point I was trying to make in my #55 comment to you.
And your example of gay marriage/gay rights movement is grasping. Gay rights movement and same sex marriage moved beyond people’s choice. It was thrust down our throats despite overwhelming objections.
It’s not winning if you cheated, it’s just being willing to sit there long enough to “finish”. Winning is accomplishing something. Rosie Ruiz didn’t win anything, she just got to the finish line.
Gay rights hasn’t moved beyond people’s choice. The people HAVE chosen, the mushy middle that really run this country have been swayed and now align with the gays, whom they used to think were kind of icky and weird.