I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. Mental illness can completely destroy families.
You sound like you may have already “checked” out, but just throwing this out there. Have you ever researched the Menninger Clinic in Houston? They are very specialized and may be an option for your wife. Or maybe not. Medical insurance would be a necessity as I’ve heard it’s very expensive.
Praying for you that you find the answers.
I checked out the Menninger Clinic site and will call them at lunch.
It stated that they do not accept insurance and inpatient costs are around $1,700/day with an average stay of 6-8 weeks. There is a possibility that my insurance (Tricare) will be able to help. The other hard part would be to get her to self admit which is one of their requirements.